Introduction
According to author of article, "Cost of Growing Up in Dysfunctional Families" Basem Abbas Alubaidi, victimized children growing up in dysfunctional families are innocent and have absolutely no control over their toxic environment.; they grew up with multiple emotional scarring caused by repeated trauma and pain from their parents actions, words, and attitudes. Ultimately, they will have different growth and nurture of their individual self. The influenced individuals will resume various parenting roles rather than enjoying their childhood, vital parts of their childhood are missing. Which will eventually have a harmful effect that extends to their adult life. Victimized adults tend attempt escaping their past pain and trauma by practicing more structive behaviors such as increase dues of alcohol, drug abuse or forced to repeat the mistreatment that was done to them.
Task
Think about your family and how it fits in to this situation. Use the links below to help you understand, cope, and make changes so that you will not follow your parents toxic behavior.
Write information you've learn and how you could apply it to your life.
https://parentandteen.com/avoid-dysfunctional-communication-cycle/
The above link has a visual diagram of the discipline cycle. It also offers tips.
Process
1. Think about your family and your feelings.
2. List how your feelings are effected by their words, actions, continuous conflicts.
3. Think about if you want this to continue in your life as an adult with children.
4, Decide what steps you will take to prevent a toxic relationship.
Evaluation
rubric
0=no response
1= a sentence or two.
3= response with clear understanding partially answered.
3= clear and concise understanding with all task completed.
Conclusion
After completion of task, please submit your findings and add a brief reflection. For example; Were the resources helpful to your situation?
The information was provided to assist you with the proper resources to help you with having future healthy relationships free of toxic people and occasions. after your task submission, we were talk futher and share more resources on this topic.
Credits
Thanks to Author Basemm Abbas Alubaidi for the article, " Cost of growing Up in a dysfunctional Family."
Thanks to Center for Parent and Teen, "Seven ways to Break Unhelpful communication Patterns.
https://parentandteen.com/avoid-dysfunctional-communication-cycle/