The Best Way To Discipline Children Is According To The Age Group

Our children are precious for us, but they are difficult to control,  then too many parents are worried very much. Maybe you need to have a class to learn and understand their behaviors. Now, there have some knowledges to teach you what children will do in different age stages, read these messages and know what happen to them so that decrease your trouble in any unknown area and give yourselves some time to prepare. This article focuses on 2 to 4 years old children and teach you how to handle your baby.

Through learn children's behaviors, find a appropriate way to discipline them and discrease hard work.

1. The first group: 2 years old. 

Their most prominent features include: always say no, roll any where, persist in wilfully and arbitrarily, possessive, selfish and overbearing. In fact, the reason why children have these behaviors, because the children began to have a sense of self, desire, intention. But they don't know how to express, even their own do not understand their own intention.

 With such a small baby, the book provides parenting skills to dredge, bypass. The first, safety first: don't tell your children that do not play and touch something. You should lock up anything should be locked and cover anything should be covered. 

The second, the law of life: hungry, thirsty, tired, tired, boring, the child is prone to lose his temper. You should develop the child's rule of life, before the child gets into the trap and maybr lead to bad mood, and then you should take appropriate measures, for example, let the children eat, sleep, play somewhere else. 
The third, transfer his attention: such a small baby, attention is moving very quickly, you should make good use of it. For example, you hold the child into the dining table, the child flipping refused to go in, you don't have to insist on. Take some small carrots, wheat circle to him, when he ate happily, then take him into the chair. 

The fourth, don not to be baby's audience: when children roll going rogue, don't to be his audience. No audience, the actor will be boring. 
The fifth, avoid the hard: if you ask, "do you want to take a shower?" The answer is definitely "not!" You could have said, "do you want to play a little duck in the bathtub, or playing a small bucket?" 

The sixth, relax yourself: when you are too tired, too hungry, you will also like children, easy to get angry. Like you treat your child, before you enter the "bad mood", take care of yourself, give yourself plenty energy.2. The second group: 3 years old. 

 From the emotional point of view, the three year old child is happy, he is friendly, calm, filled with a sense of security, easy to accept, but also happy to share. The child suddenly becomes quiet and gentle. He would often say, ok or want it. Laugh is more than cry, and easy to compromise. At the age of three, most of the children in the physical or psychological, especially emotional development, will show a steady state. He has a good sense of self - concept and solid. Of course, his self concept have a great relationship with how others treat him. At the age of three, he will be more like share or dependence, and he also realizes that enhance of growth and ability. At the same time, three years is a "our age". He would like to say, let us have a walk... This work together or ours feeling, let him have the feeling of dependence. At the same time, he also likes to share. Once looked like independent child, now often  says, you help me to do, or you do it for me. He likes to play with other children, but his most loved person is mother. Especially mother put aside the hands of the matter, to focus on him, tell him stories, playing games with him, or accompany him, always brings him joy.Baby has a good development in language. He likes to learn new words, especially words like these: new, secret, scared, so hard. When things come to a deadlock, if you say the right words, you can save the scene. For example, you say, little surprises, or a small gift this word, and you can actually take this small gift out, and even a small piece of biscuit, also can make the children infinite joy, let him forget unhappy just now.But the good times don't last long, when you still enjoy this wonderful time, time has been quietly took him to another growth stage, but this stage ------ three to three and a half years old will be entirely different. This is the period of unstable after the stable period. Resistance is characteristic of this period. For mother, three and a half years old children want to oppose her in everything. Three and a half years old is full of introvert, anxiety, lack of a security sense, and strong psychokinesis.Sometimes, we may think he is so stubborn, because he was so confident. In fact, completely is not like that, but just the opposite. Three and a half years old child is very insecure, even in his physiological development, also showed his insecurity, such as stuttering, often wrestling, sometimes nervous trembling. Emotional and physical insecurity, often come out at this stage. He lacks a sense of security, on the other hand he wants to dominate the world. Because he is unable to control their emotions, he lives in the struggle everyday, life has been very unpleasant. He often tries to control the outside world, in order to reduce his anxious and uneasy. For example, he usually commands the people around, do not look do not laugh in a minute, he will feel oneself highly flattered the command. But if people refuse to pay attention to him, he'll ask you to notice him. He didn't let mother talking on the phone, do not let father read the newspaper, even his parents talk to each other. He is experiencing his relationship with others, as well as the individual self. He is not so interested in us, which is one of the reasons he issue orders left and right. He felt someone inadvertently at a glance, is a violation of his autonomy. In three and a half years old age, friends are quite important to him. Because of his passion to his friends, his behavior has also a good side. Many children have imaginary friends in this age, these friends maybe some people or some animals. Some children like make themselves into others, they are "kitten" sometimes, "dog" or "pony". In these partners, and some very fragile, vulnerable to instigate, some is an eldest child's appearance, like to dominate others. But there is a consolation, some children at this time grows very fast, especially the slow development child, at this time will proceed with determination of his companion, there are slower to learn speaking boy, also in the three and a half years old, become has a ready tongue. Good language ability, will let the 3.5 years old children's behave more satisfied.  For parents, we should be careful very much when your children at 3.5 years old. Although this is a bad time, but the kid is not your enemy, he did not mean to against with you, but he is in physically and mentally unstable state. His daily life, we have to expend energy, floriferous idea to deal with. Accept the fact that your baby's biggest emotional vent object is the mother is in his special age,. And when he is not emotional, make time to play with him. Maybe he is a pleasant and quiet child, he can spend this period quitely, therefore, we don't have to worry about he doesn't show instability characteristics. If he is really in the case, we can rest assured. Because no matter how good temper the baby has, baby will have unstable sometimes. 3. The third group: 4 years old. 

The typical four years old children love adventure, love hiking, like stimulation, they like any new things, to contact people who do not know, love going to new places, like a new game, the new toys, new activity and new. The typical four year old children have quick actions, everything he does is very fast, the transfer of interest is also very fast, and one thing only once. Now your children speak a little more, a little love to brag, sometimes also some domineering. This is because he has begun to enter the field of fresh self performance, plus the hyperexcitability. Four years old children found that although adult wields enormous power, but not all, at the same time, he also found himself very powerful. From his point of view, some bad things can do, the roof will not fall down. Four year old child will accept your offer with no opinion, be jubilant, no matter what idea you give him, thus giving kids who in this age new toys, books, clothes, experience or messages, there are happy thing for him. Because, whatever you give to him, his eyes will shine. Four years old children love a lot of things, but his mood is very extreme. He loves more, and hate more. No one can say for sure, what caused his hate. But no matter what, in a reasonable range, his feelings should be fully respected. Four year olds expansion characteristics, sometimes even he can't stand it. Therefore, he still love and respect to specification, but not always remember that, you have to be constantly reminded him. Four year olds children have always wanted to run out, often without rules. Before 4.5 years old, many children can let parents to allow them to go outside and play, but not to monitor or view. However, the children want to know, before parents say stop, where he can go to play. A healthy, energetic and talented good child in four years old, seem to be in every area of life, are not bound by the rules of the performance. In the action, if he is angry, he kicked and punched, and spit slobber; if something behind him, he could run away. Whether happy or not happy, he was always very impulsive. In the mood, he is also extremely not remain in one's proper sphere. Something make him happy, he laugh, something is wrong when he cries. His laugh more than cry, but he likes to see people laugh. In fact, he is often a goofy. However, He often boast, like one hundred thousand bugs, as big as a house. He also bragged that, my home has more.
 The four year old children often say dirty words to the person who offend him or he doen't like. Therefore, parents need to be more cautious in your words and deeds. On the other hand, if the children don't really say dirty words, also will use some almost insulting and threatening words to criticism parents. If you encounter this situation, you don't angry admonished him, to be calm and said to him, is like that? Or blink your eyes that you understand the truth, in this way, he often will soon speak the truth. Four and a half years old child is very interested in collecting new information, at the same time, he also had learned skills to do more perfect, when he played, not like four years old so wild, but also be able to tolerate frustration. But in the emotion management, it is difficult to fathom, always a cry, a laugh, become very quickly. Four and a half years old children in jeopardy, will become stubborn. This is the time to think in a humorous way to distract him, will not be eary like four years old. Four and a half years old children come to know the authority, and when the parents blame them, there is a face you never see before, confused, listening, and the expression of fear. Parents see this expression, may want to accommodate his request, and this perhaps to bargain with him for a supply of sth.. From the beginning of the period, the children began to understand good or bad things. During this period, his the most happy thing, like at bedtime, listen to some small story. He likes listening to parent's story when they were children.

The skills that get along with four years old children: 1. Share and create with them. 2. Ignore his bad behavior. 3. Take his brag. 4. Argue with them (if the child uses rude words against with you, you can also play his game, to liberate his pent up emotions until both you are happy) 5. Give your children a specific time 6. Give a verbal specification 7. Consult with children 8. Avoid trouble. 9. Don't gossiping on the phone (four year olds are hated mother phone chatting) 10. Using positive and humorous guide 11. The use of secret words 12. Use whisper to replace the roar 13. Sometimes you may blow brag 14. Put your heart and soul into your conversation 15. Carefully select TV programs 

1. When your child do not follow your orders, how to do?

2. What characters the 3 years old children have?

3.When characteristics of outward expansion happen to your child, what measures you should take?

This article shows children's characters in 2 - 4 years old, and lists many problems that parents will face and the solutions. You should continue to study the knowledge about children, then you will understand what they really want to express or they want. Patience is very important, no matter how angry you are, do forget this is your child, and you have responsibility for all his mistake. Because you discipline your child, educate your child, and you hold initiative in any situation with your child. Take care your baby begin from real understanding, from now.